Relationships - The Secret to Creating Caring and Committed Relationships

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Relationships - The Secret to Creating Caring and Committed Relationships

Relationships - The Secret to Creating Caring and Committed Relationships
Today I heard a radio broadcast where the speaker discussed the changes he had observed among NBA players.� He talked about the Old School players who played hard and had a loyalty to the team and the New School players who also played hard but were� � primarily focused on their personal gain.� He felt that the direction to being so "Me" focused was not good for the sport. This got me thinking that� over� the years we have become a very "ME" focused society and this theme plays itself out in many arenas from sports to � politics to families.
Couples have to find a balance in� developing� as individuals while at the same time focus on growing their relationship.� The key� is learning to� establish a� relationship balance� that allows each individual to evolve while simultaneously strengthening the couple unit.
The� secret to creating� healthy� committed relationships is to, besides valuing yourself, to� truly� value the well being of the relationship.� Look at the relationship as a separate unique entity.� � There are three dimensions to a relationship - I, You, and We.� All three are equally� important and have to be nurtured.� Align your individual goals with your relationship goals by asking,"What do I want?" and "How will this impact my relationship?"�
I have worked with many couples where each individual� is much more focused on self and not� simultaneously� thinking of the relationship.� I call these people "married singles".� They are indeed a product of the "me" generation.� The sad thing is that by being so me focused on personal fulfillment they are not giving to nor are they getting from their relationship what they desire.� � These couples generally manage their joint responsibilities, however they do not feel the intimacy and connection they yearn for� from their relationship.�
What is the answer?� The answer is resetting the foundation of the relationship to encompass all three dimensions - yourself (I), each other (YOU) and the relationship as a loving entity (WE).� By shifting your energy to caring about yourself, caring about your partner, and caring about the relationship the well being of all three parts is ensured.� As you develop a shared purpose in your relationship you� and your partner will be enhanced as individuals and feel love and commitment with each other.
For more tips and tools on enhancing your relationship please visit: http://www.GrowWithKristina.com and http://www.kristinavonr.com by relationship expert Kristina von Rosenvinge

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