Tangled With Uncommitted Relationships

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Tangled With Uncommitted Relationships

Tangled With Uncommitted Relationships
The world is replete with insurmountable tales of despair and unhappiness. People often seek to correct the errors of others failing to stop and scrutinize their own dejection and hopelessness. There are so many individuals caught in that web of deception that they, sometimes, tend to forget where they want to go, how they should proceed and exactly when they should part with an uncommitted partner. Opinions will vary depending on the person you ask. Nonetheless, whether we want to admit it or not, uncommitted relationships have become an integral part of our society. These sadistic and perverse acts are rampant and usually go by undetected by most of us.
The fact of the matter is you might kid around; you play the fools and pretend that everything is honky dory, but deep down inside you are still sitting in a corner in lotus position, may be praying or hoping you don't ever land in the kingdom of lost souls where no one ever loves or seriously cares for anybody. Why? Simply because you know that sooner or later everything you worked on will crumble to the ground. You dare not face the unavoidable truth that in the end someone will get hurt. It's not very difficult to determine where you have to go with an uncommitted relationship. It's just that many are those who put everything off till tomorrow and tomorrow never comes.
Cautiousness is always the best way to proceed. Just how far do you want to go anyway? We all know that it's not safe to get enthralled in a relationship bound to disaster. Remember that those who play with fire eventually wind up under the grill. As difficult as it might appear to be, you should try to keep your emotions fenced and refrain from playing with someone else's feelings. Be sincere and truthful. If you know you are not committed, you should not insist on hearing a commitment. Plain and simple, this is not fair game. When all is said and done, you will have to deal with retribution, karma and all the rest. Many uncommitted partners are inclined to be manipulative, at times, invoking their rights to control the lives of others. Your mind must be swift and tight, if you are going to survive a trip of this ilk. Be alert and stay on guard. If you look close enough you will unveil and recognize the signs.
You should consider yourselves lucky, if you manage to walk out of an uncommitted relationship free of bruises and scratches. Note that I am not necessarily pointing to your physical makeup or complexion although we can't rule that out either. Uncommitted partners could be explosive individuals retorting to all kinds of tricks in the book. If they sense they are about to be exposed, they can put up a show and dramatize beautiful scenes of change and evoke empty promises tantamount of those seeking reelection. If your blinders are still on, you will not see beyond that mask of treachery, and you will be left powerless against a mudslide of poignant scars and devastating emotions.
Fortunately, not everything is lost. There is still good out there. Even so, we are surrounded by many individuals naive enough to believe in vacuous, radical, and deceptive changes. They gave into the "please give me one more chance." And oftentimes decided to remain objective while they waited and waited, perhaps waiting too long. Sure tomorrow is another day, but maybe they should have listened to their inner voices and severed all ties the minute they discovered their significant other was not leading them to the top of the mountain rather attempting to trip them off a bottomless pit.
�© Daniell Fedron August 19, 2008
Daniell Fedrón is not your modern day mystic yet he enjoys the subject of spirituality, and his self published book, GOD SENDS... THE ANGELS DELIVER http://www.authorhouse.com will attest to this fact. He has a fascination for poetry and praises all those able to see, feel and write about life through poetry. In his latest book, MEMORIES TRAPPED http://pentawriter.blogspot.com, he imaginatively ventures into the adventures and surreal world of childhood. Books are also available at major bookstores and online retailers.

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